I'm really, really sorry if anyone takes offense from this post, but... I just need to vent something.
A few weeks ago, this new girl got to this school. Like the rest of the group in this building, she has a disability. I would guess she has a very severe case of autism.
Now, I DEFINITELY don't have ANY problems with that. I have Asperger's, which is an autistic disorder, so it would be quite unwise of me to dislike someone "like me".
The thing I do have a problem with, though, is that she suddenly starts visiting us EVERY DAY, thinking that we're her best friends or something. She just comes barging in (if we don't have our doors locked), touching us and our things in the room, and refuses to leave when told to. She even ate my candy I got from my mom, the rare moment I got to visit her nowadays
Just a few minutes ago, she barged into my boyfriend's room (I was there, too) and started to sneak a peek into every single drawer in the room, picking up me and my boyfriend's stuff and handled it very roughly (nearly tearing an origami heart I made for him when we first started dating, about two years ago).
She also decided to pick up my boyfriend's Ipad and insisted on "borrowing" it. When my boyfriend said no, she just kept nagging like a child to watch a movie on it. My boyfriend tried to pull the thing from her, but she pulled it back! She refused to listen!
He got a bit irritated, but didn't say anything. Eventually he could pull the Ipad from her hands, and by then he told her to leave. She refused and just sat down on HIS BED, pretending not to hear him. He repeated himself. She refused.
I tried to talk to her. She refused.
My boyfriend, sounding like he was about to cry, told her YET AGAIN to leave. She just smiled dumbly at him and shook her head.
My boyfriend sat down on his sofa and sighed. After a few minutes, I managed to kick her out with a bribe of four origami papers and a promise to make her an origami heart -____-''
After that, my boyfriend was devastated and exhausted. He has Asperger's too, and doesn't like telling off other people. He and I doesn't even want to leave the room for the rest of the day now. (It's 19.06 here now).
As I said, if anyone got offended, I'm sorry. But I can't handle her anymore. I know she can't help it, but... I just can't help but feel slightly annoyed and frustrated.
I can't avoid her, and I can't keep her as a friend either. It's going to be hard, no matter what we do. We can't move rooms or anything either, there's no space left.
I'm absolutely lost. I don't know what to do about this